FOMO: Food Envy Causes Unrest at the Dinner Table

Ever had a When Harry Met Sally moment when dining out and wished you were having what she’s having? Ordered a kale salad only to gaze at your companion’s melty pizza with lustful envy? You’re not alone. Our recent “food envy” survey, conducted online by Harris Poll, revealed nearly all Americans who have experienced food envy (91%) have pined for a different dish while dining out. For almost a third (30%), food envy has also resulted in some tense moments at the dinner table.

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When It Strikes

According to the survey, it doesn’t take long for dish jealously to set in once seated at the table. While it can strike at any time, food envy is most likely to arise the moment the food arrives (32%). For those who have experienced food envy, it was enough to stir up feelings of disappointment (40%), regret (37%), and hunger (33%). Women are more likely than men to feel let down or disappointed by their dish choice (43% vs. 36%). For younger diners ages 18 – 34, food envy appears to be a more practical matter, as they are more likely to feel hungry when compared to their older counterparts ages 35+ (48% vs 27%).

Tension on the Menu

And while nearly 2 in 5 of those who experience food envy (39%) will try to settle things amicably to overcome the feeling of food envy by visiting the restaurant on a later date and ordering the dish they desire, nearly one-third (31%) will push their companions to share meals or steal from their dish. Furthermore, this may explain why close to one-third of Americans who have experienced food envy (30%) admit it has caused tension with a friend or partner while dining out, with men and younger adults far more likely to experience tension than their female (35% of men vs. 26% of women) and older peers (42% of 18-34 year olds vs. 25% of adults 35+), respectively.

How to Avoid It

Those who experience food envy say that indecision (41%) and a desire to experiment with new dishes but later regretting it (33%) are the top two reasons why it happens in the first place when dining out. And while a vast majority (84%) admit to taking proactive steps to help avoid food envy when dining out, including previewing the restaurant menu beforehand (46%), glancing at what others are eating before ordering (34%), and asking the restaurant staff for recommendations (32%), food envy still prevails.

Food Envy Is Everywhere

Although most of those who experience food envy (91%) say it has happened while dining out, not all instances take place at the restaurant. A majority of those who have experienced food envy (82%) say it happens regularly/occasionally when they just walk past food that smells good. At least half also experience food envy when they see food on TV (68%) and social media (50%), or while having a conversation about food (57%).

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About the Survey:
The survey was conducted online within the United States by Harris Poll on behalf of OpenTable from March 16 – March 20, 2017, among 2,198 U.S. adults ages 18 and older, including 1,679 who have ever experienced food envy. This online survey is not based on a probability sample and therefore no estimate of theoretical sampling errors can be calculated.